A discerning gentleman’s guide to great guilt-free sex on St Valentine’s night

By Ishtar Babilu Dingir

In my book, The Sacred Sex Rites of Ishtar, I describe how to practice shamanic sexual healing or sex magic. So far, it’s been selling like Gloria Gaynor’s hot stuff, but mainly to the ladies. I’m wondering what’s making the men shy off, and I think it might be the result of media manipulation which piggy-backed on to some scientific research that emerged in the early Nineties, and led to the publication of two seminal books… and a lot of ribbing after that!

Published in 1992, the book Brain Sex by Anne Moir and David Jessel gave the biological rationale for the differences in how the different genders think. In short, our brains grow differently from the womb with marked structural and organisational variations.

Then, in the same year, Men are From Mars and Women are From Venus by John Gray came out which simplified, almost to the point of caricature, some of the more complex concepts found in Brain Sex … leading to a slew of artwork in the newspapers and magazines like this:

male and female brains

While both the the thinking processes of the genders were trivialised and made fun of, the male came off the worst… With cartoons like these, it’s no wonder if the male libido is sagging.




OK, it gave us all a good laugh. But whether deliberately or accidently, the way in which the original serious research of Moir and Jessel was used in the mainstream media has led to the demonisation of the male and his desire for sex.

Well, dear gentlemen, I’m here to tell you that having sex on the brain for so much of the time is nothing to feel guilty about. On the contrary, without you keeping your end up (sorry!) in the battle of the sexes, the whole of creation would screech to a grinding halt, and I don’t just mean the human race.

Let me explain:

In solely concentrating on the physical brain and the mental body, scientists have completely ignored the etheric body, which is a shame. Because once the etheric body is built into this cognitive model, we can start to understand the purpose for such differences between the sexes.

Yes, everybody knows that polar opposites attract, but attract for what purpose? Is it just to make babies? Or is to have great sex? You may be pleased to know that I’m saying ‘yes’ to the latter.. .because my experience as a shaman and alchemist tells me that the purpose of really great sex is not so much to create babies, although that too, but to create new worlds through ecstatic states of being.

As Peter Kingsley wrote in his book: A Story Waiting to Pierce You, “The shaman’s work is about talking and listening to Time. In between, there is nothing that keeps a world alive aside from the breath of ecstatics.”

So how does this process work?

Perhaps this metaphor will help:

Shut your eyes, and now…. think of an explosion of energies …. something like, say, a huge bomb going off. Boom!

Now I want you to imagine all the energy of that huge bomb being channelled inwards. Instead of the bomb exploding outwards, it is imploding inwards. This is known as an implosion of energies, as opposed to an explosion of energies. Sacred or shamanic lovemaking is a matter of implosion.

As we know, when a man ejaculates his sperm outwards, in that moment of love, beauty, magic and alchemy, a baby is created. In that explosion or sperm bomb, life on earth is created. Now think of turning all that creativity and love and beauty inwards. In that implosion of love, beauty, magic and alchemy, something else is created… not a baby, but a Ka-body, as the ancient Egyptians called it. Not life on Earth, but life in the Heavens, or other dimensions.

Shamanic sex magic, though, has nothing in common with the rudimentary bunk-up after a night out, for instance, and it can’t be rushed; it also requires an enormous amount of love between the couple, and the process itself brings you into a state of adoration which is vital for the final step: the opening, by the woman, of her magnetic floor.

The Metaphysics of Sex

The metaphysical anatomy works by sound resonance or vibration, and it is made up of the auric field, known to the ancient Egyptians as the Ka body. My understanding is that if we have used our time, in this lifetime, to strengthen and revitalise our Ka bodies, we will create a useful container or body sheath which will last for many hundreds of years after our deaths.

Of course, you don’t see people walking around on this Earth with bodies that are hundreds of years old. The Ka bodies don’t exist here, but in the spiritual dimensions to which shamans journey. Some of the spirits which the shaman meets have been in human bodies and have evolved into that domain through their Ka bodies.

It’s my understanding that those taught to strengthen their Ka bodies in this way are already singled out for service to humanity as a guiding spirit after this human lifetime, to help others along and up the spiral into immortality. And it’s because you cannot just exist in pure spirit form to do this that you need a Ka body. The Ka body acts as a vehicle as well as a costume so that humans can see the spirit when they’re in the shamanic state.

This kind of sex magic also activates something called the Uraeus, which lights up the higher brain centres, and this leads to greater intelligence, emotional empathy, foresight and intuition.

In my book The Sacred Sex Rites of Ishtar, I lay out a series of easy-to-follow exercises so that you can have hours and hours of fun yourself and with your partner. But don’t wait until Valentine’s Day itself. If you get it now, it will give you plenty of time to practice….just click on the book for more:

The Sacred Sex Rites of Ishtar

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The Sacred Sex Rites of Ishtar

Shamanic sexual healing and sex magic

The article above is by the shaman Ishtar Babilu Dingir, who is also the author of The Sacred Sex Rites of Ishtar. It is about sex magic across dimensions that leads to greater self empowerment and creative intelligence, which she has been taught by her guiding spirits, over decades. Ishtar explains, however, that this is not a New Age teaching, but a very old one, and that she is merely reconstituting a practice in which our earlier ancestors were skilled and which they valued highly as a means of spiritual evolution.

In Part I, Ishtar lays the foundation stone for this teaching by showing the ancient artwork, iconography and orally transmitted lore underlying these sacred shamanic sex practices, which seem to have fallen out of favour after the destruction of the Mystery Groves and the Library of Alexandria.

Ishtar uses erotic poetry and engravings from ancient Egypt, Crete, India, Sumer and Babylon to show that sacred sex was part of the Kingship rites, and that the spirits were present in the lovemaking. She also finds evidence for the practice of the Faery Marriage, and what she believes is the original meaning of the Holy Grael which can be traced back to Neanderthals about 45,000 years ago.

Ishtar unravels ancient myths to show that they are really “Trojan horses” of sacred dramas which carry the secret keys of this ancient sex magic teaching. She is also the first to discover the allegorical sub-strata containing the keys to shamanic sex magic in Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream, based on alchemy and the Alchemical Marriage. She gives the same treatment to the story of the Woman at the Well in the Gospel of John.

Ishtar also describes how Babylon has been deliberately demonised by who we now call the Zionists and their proxy armies who have, for millennia, been trying to turn it into a pile of rubble. This is because of the power of the sacred geometry created by the Ishtar Gate and the Tower of Babylon, she says, which created the conditions for a portal, or a ‘Stargate’, into other dimensions.

In Part II of The Sacred Sex Rites of Ishtar, Ishtar shows the metaphysical anatomy of the human being, and then reveals the secret techniques of shamanic sex magic, so that people can try them for themselves.

Although this may seem like quite a complex subject, her past experience as a national newspaper journalist in the UK – Sunday Times, Sunday Express, Mail on Sunday – has given Ishtar the ability to explain some quite dense material in simple everyday language to produce an engaging, page-turner of a book. She also writes with great humour!

To find out more, just click on the book below.

The Sacred Sex Rites of Ishtar

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